The Stand Up Stand Off 2



1. Girl been crushing on and flirting with guy for a few weeks.


Guys flirts back, shows interests calls her bae and 

ask her coworker to find out if she would date hispanic guys.

Girl says yes and gives guy her number

Guy never call or text but continues to flirt with girl

2months later….

Guys ask girl to hang out.

Suprised he asked but she says no because she has to work.

Excited to finally see him outside of work she switches her schedule and same day excitedly tells him yes she can go.


He says Ok and that he will text the details to her but he is pretty

 sure it will be on xyz date around xyz time.

2 days passed and the day and time comes around, girl gets no call or text nor does she have his number to call him.

Girl goes to sleep confused, hurt and overthinking about what could and has happen

She sees guys at work and for the next two days he says absolutely nothing. Doesn’t try to get her attention or call or text either.

 2.  Now she is heated, confused, hurt af and borderline tears but she calmly pulls guy to the side and asks him to explain what happens.


Guy says it was an early night. He got drunk and went to sleep so plans were cancelled and no one went out.

Girl asks guy why he didnt say that her earlier.

Guys blames girl says she was ignoring him and avoidi


ng him…. sure it will be on a certain day around a certain time.

2 days pass and the day and time around. Girl gets no call or text nor does she have his 


So let me get this right. You stand someone up and then expect them to hunt you down for an explantion. Even if that person was ignoring you in person, you didnt try to call or text outside of work either? Hmmmm Ok lets continue on.

Later that night guy sends this text:





Girl responds:


How would you act the next time you see the guy?

Would the work relationship change and in what ways?

Do you think that ended well?



Well, no it didn’t  #Part3 behind the scenes


Author: Golden Sunrays

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